Your perspective always changes with time. It’s fun to sit back and watch things that changes in time.
Ani was 6 year old when I started working at RGA. I worked in a very flexible work space until then and RGA is very high demanding and stressed work environment with no flexibility. After few days of start Ani said “Amma I don’t like your new job, I like your old job” you are not spending much time with me is his complaint then. Now after 6 years, started at Centene. I have little more time now, seems to get my life back. With about 2 weeks after new start, Ani who is 12 now and into his pre- teen said same dialogue, “Amma I don’t like your new job, I like your old job” same dialogue, but this time it’s because I have more time I am concentrating more on kids 🙂 Same dialogue but completely contrast in sense.
It makes sense from his perspective, I left him for a while on his own and now poking with his day to day activities every day, doesn’t seem to go well with him. May be I should step back and help him seamlessly if he needs.
Time is all it takes 🙂